Chip Martin Posted July 9, 2007 Report Share Posted July 9, 2007 Hello, I am just wondering if a different stone can be an engagement ring. Does it always have to be a diamond ring? I am asking because my brother's fiance is very fond of rubies and a big ruby that is diamond cut would make her go crazy! I just know that she would prefer the ruby as the engagement ring over a diamond as the main stone. I for one am an "outside of the box" person and I have never been married so I say that it is okay to get something different. But I do not want to use my own lack of experience to convince my brother that he should get a ruby ring when it would be the best to get a diamond ring. Thanks for any input! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StonesRock07 Posted July 23, 2007 Report Share Posted July 23, 2007 (edited) Hello, I am just wondering if a different stone can be an engagement ring. Does it always have to be a diamond ring? I am asking because my brother's fiance is very fond of rubies and a big ruby that is diamond cut would make her go crazy! I just know that she would prefer the ruby as the engagement ring over a diamond as the main stone. I for one am an "outside of the box" person and I have never been married so I say that it is okay to get something different. But I do not want to use my own lack of experience to convince my brother that he should get a ruby ring when it would be the best to get a diamond ring. Thanks for any input! I am newly engaged!!!! I waited along time for the moment were my now fiancé would be down on his knee with a ring asking for me to spend the rest of my life with him. I was so excited when he opened the box to find a sapphire opposed to the traditional diamond. I had hinted at a sapphire instead of a diamond but figured that since everyone around us friends/mothers/sisters were diamond people he would just get me a diamond, but to my surprise he took note of my feelings about diamonds and got me a beautiful ring from a company in New York called The Natural Sapphire Company. http://www.thenaturalsapphirecompany.com/index.aspx My fiancé said he had a very good experience with them and I was even more excited when i found out that he sat with the sales person and they designed a ring for me I thought that was soooooo sweet! I have a good man and a beautiful ring to show the world how great he is!!! Edited July 23, 2007 by StonesRock07 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iceforever.diamonds Posted August 13, 2007 Report Share Posted August 13, 2007 personally as a woman it doesn't really necessary that my guy will be buying a diamond ring or any expensive ring available in the market beside he can even propose without a ring..... the idea of his letting me know that i am the one whom he choses to live with his entire life is the most flaterring part of all.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelby Posted August 27, 2010 Report Share Posted August 27, 2010 Yes, its true that diamonds are more popular than any other gemstone for engagement ring but you can see ruby and Sapphire are also been used for long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
z4cadpro Posted August 31, 2010 Report Share Posted August 31, 2010 Hello, I am just wondering if a different stone can be an engagement ring. Does it always have to be a diamond ring? I am asking because my brother's fiance is very fond of rubies and a big ruby that is diamond cut would make her go crazy! I just know that she would prefer the ruby as the engagement ring over a diamond as the main stone. I for one am an "outside of the box" person and I have never been married so I say that it is okay to get something different. But I do not want to use my own lack of experience to convince my brother that he should get a ruby ring when it would be the best to get a diamond ring. Thanks for any input! - Chip No, an engagement ring does not have to be a diamond but why wouldn't you want a diamond. I can understand that she is not like the typical girl in wanting all the shiny things in life but you have to consider the down fall of not having a diamond. A sapphire, such as a Ruby will not have the long lasting beauty as a diamond. They scuff, chip, crack and are easily damaged losing beauty, value and sparkle. Yes, diamond also crack and chip but they are far more durable than a sapphire. I suggest buying a semi-mount with two rubies on either side of the diamond, which is typical nowadays. Simon G. made a semi-mount for this type of mounting. Getting a Ruby as a center stone is much like giving her an sterling silver engagement ring. The metal is much to soft to ensure tight prongs to hold a precious stone such as a diamond. That is why they do not make silver engagement rings, only silver PREVIEW rings for you to view prior to making a custom order. Hopes this helps but I wouldn't stray from a diamond center stone unless you want to spend more and more money out of pocket to replace a damaged sapphire year in and year out, especially if she is going to wear it for the rest of her life. THE REST OF HER LIFE! don't forget that part. Theres a reason that diamonds, gold, platinum are used to make engagement rings. They will last you the longest with a reasonable amount of service and maintenance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeartAndStone Posted September 1, 2010 Report Share Posted September 1, 2010 Let my share my thoughts on this useful thread. Technically, no. But you can always be creative, you can settle for a .35 carat diamond with some precious gemstones. It's about giving her the best which equates to a diamond. Giving your girl a real diamond is something a guy shoul really think about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gemgalga Posted September 12, 2010 Report Share Posted September 12, 2010 you can totally go non-traditional with this one, i think. i know some folks that don't even LIKE diamonds (*GASP* i know!). I think what matters most is that the gal has a ring that she loves and will love looking at for the rest of their lives. Sapphire and Ruby are both members of a species of stone called Corundum--it's the second hardest thing to Diamond, being a 9 on the Moh's scale of hardness. Now being a 9 and diamond being a 10 doesn't mean that they're super close in hardness, as it's all relative, and diamonds are WAY harder, but Ruby and Sapphire will stand up pretty good over time. Here's the thing--yes, it will scuff and the facet junctions will wear down eventually, esp if she's rough on the ring, but, if it's what she wants, it's what she wants. The center stone can always be replaced--with a diamond or another ruby--down the line if that's what she wishes to do, but it will hold up reasonably well if she takes good care of the ring. i've seen people have EMERALDS as center stones, even, which is just NUTS because of how fragile they are, but it's the stone they love, and it makes them happy. but i don't think ruby or sapphire are unreasonable to use for engagement rings because they will hold up pretty well over time and ARE in the "precious" category, which as far as i'm concerned, makes them perfectly acceptable for engagement rings and for those that go "well diamonds are more valuable" rubies can be nearly as valuable as diamonds, depending on their origin, quality and cut. i think in the longrun, diamond is more "wearable" b/c it "goes with everything", sapphires are the next so, hence their popularity. but it's really a matter of personal choice--some people like heart shapes, some like emerald cuts. as long as the ring is beautiful and she loves it (and the guy who gave it to her) that's what's most important. people can think whatever they want--and they will--regardless of what the ring looks like and is made of, but the only thing that matters is that the wearer is happy! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mattyt Posted September 22, 2010 Report Share Posted September 22, 2010 one of my best friend's favorite gemstones is ruby, and when we were in college, he told me about how he had plans for the engagement ring he would present to the woman he decided he'd marry--not that this person was in the picture yet--would be a ruby and *maybe* have small diamonds with it. i suggested maybe he might wait and see what she would like rather than making that decision for her. he said whoever he would propose to would be happy with whatever he gave her or wouldn't really be "the one". never did find out how that all turned out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theheartbandits Posted November 20, 2010 Report Share Posted November 20, 2010 There is no right or wrong answer here. This comes down to your brother really knowing the girl he will propose to and if she would like something besides a diamond. If he is confident that she will love a ruby, he should go for it. Hiring a Proposal Planner could help as well. www.theheartbandits.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alvina Posted June 20, 2011 Report Share Posted June 20, 2011 There is no right or wrong answer here. This comes down to your brother really knowing the girl he will propose to and if she would like something besides a diamond. If he is confident that she will love a ruby, he should go for it. Hiring a Proposal Planner could help as well. www.theheartbandits.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alvina Posted June 20, 2011 Report Share Posted June 20, 2011 There is no right or wrong answer here. This comes down to your brother really knowing the girl he will propose to and if she would like something besides a diamond. If he is confident that she will love a ruby, he should go for it. Hiring a Proposal Planner could help as well. www.theheartbandits.com Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alvina Posted June 20, 2011 Report Share Posted June 20, 2011 why to do that everyone around do...... be different dude. give her something unique as girls loves to look separate from the crowd. if she loves rubies then gift her one... her liking is more important than tradition. happy shopping Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
firelim Posted July 21, 2014 Report Share Posted July 21, 2014 i feel with a big diamond better Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chloerfink Posted August 30, 2017 Report Share Posted August 30, 2017 For my opinion any rings or gemstone rings is okay. As long as you're love for each other is pure and hard to break like diamonds 1 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davidelevi Posted June 20, 2018 Report Share Posted June 20, 2018 (edited) Nicola - best wishes for your engagement! Be careful with your stone, though. Tanzanite is stunningly beautiful, but it also cleaves easily and it's relatively soft. ETA: previous post was a bit spammy... but since the note on tanzanite above may be relevant to others, I've decided to leave my reply. Edited June 20, 2018 by davidelevi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davidelevi Posted October 20, 2020 Report Share Posted October 20, 2020 What a lot of tosh! 55 minutes ago, Tango Charlie said: many decades back, diamonds were not used for jewellery It all depends on what you mean by "jewellery". 56 minutes ago, Tango Charlie said: only a thousand of years ago diamonds entered jewellery market and slowly it became a custom to propose your girlfriend with a diamond ring From "decades" now we are at "a thousand years"? The earliest diamond jewellery (as in: personal ornament for the sake of ornament) known goes back to ~1400 in the West; maybe a couple of hundreds of years earlier in India. But - as far as it is known - that was indeed the first use of diamonds for anything at all A "diamond ring proposal" didn't become a custom in any significant way until the 1940s, when the end of WWII, massive amounts of marketing and the availability of diamonds from South Africa made it possible. Until then, a plain metal ring or a ring with any other stone were considered perfectly acceptable. And still are... the rest is marketing. 1 hour ago, Tango Charlie said: scientists discovered its healing properties Please point to a single healing property of diamond that is scientifically attested. 1 hour ago, Tango Charlie said: there are other metals from which engagement ring can be made, but they are generally considered far less romantic Diamond is not a metal in any sense whatsoever. And what the hell does "less romantic" mean? Please. Try again, or stop spamming altogether. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davidelevi Posted October 21, 2020 Report Share Posted October 21, 2020 (edited) You are posting on a public forum, on a 13 year old thread that the OP and any of the original contributors haven't been on for a long, long time. So, I'm not sure what you mean when you say "you have no intention". Why post here, then? You are posting factually incorrect information which is also irrelevant to the thread/question - nobody is "getting its wrong way" Edited October 21, 2020 by davidelevi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
davidelevi Posted April 2 Report Share Posted April 2 1 hour ago, shwetamehra860] said: The best jewellery store I would suggest you to go to would be [spam]. I purchase very frequently from them and have always been surprised by the amazing designs they. The prices are worth the product you're getting you should totally check them out. Let me know when you buy from them. ... and another one spams, another one spams, another one spams the thread ... (to the tune of 'Another one bites the dust', by Queen) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ed Auguero Posted July 30 Report Share Posted July 30 Any ring can be used as an engagement ring; it does not have to be a diamond or an expensive ring. The most critical factor is to select a style that your companion will appreciate. That implies you can wear your engagement ring after the ceremony without a wedding band. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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