davidelevi, on 24 August 2011 - 11:51 PM, said:
What does "safe" mean? Will it look large - yes, it will. Will it look white? From the top, possibly; from the side it may show some yellow, and a J noticeably more than an I. Will it be eye-clean? Maybe. Will it look good? Perhaps.
"Will it look good?
Perhaps." Ouch!? You mean I'm not even guaranteed to have it look good after all that money? Even if I get an excellent cut, near colorless, SI1 (supposed to be eye-clean) rock?
Is a J color noticeably more yellow than an I? We saw a 2.5carat "I" in store at Tiffany's, and she liked that color. Would a J really be that different? (This will be in a platinum setting, which I assume would make it look more white)
By "safe" I just mean that I want it to look good, even if by going rock bottom on the specs (J, SI1) I'm sacrificing any bragging rights or investment value (don't care about either). Am I being unrealistic, or asking too much? I sure don't want to spend $30,000 and get an ugly yellowish blurry diamond.
Re: GIA "Ideal"
GIA grade goes up to "Excellent". So that's what I'm going by. Should I go by something else? I'm just using the "ideal" designation for the search engines.
The sales rep from Cartier was bashing the Tiffany grading system, saying they grade "in house" and aren't reliable.
Re: SI1 in a larger stone you need to tread carefully
OK, so SI1 are probably "eye clean" for smaller stones. But are most still eye clean in a 3 carat stone? Or is this rare in this size?
Am I wrong in thinking that this SI1 looks blurry?
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and this SI1 looks good?
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Re: Where to shop for large SI1 eye clean diamond
Can you recommend other online jewelers with good reputations for such a diamond? I see that [url="http:///www.jamesallen.com"]James Allen[/url] offers pictures. And I've seen them recommended on this board.
But if most SI1 diamonds are "eye clean", maybe I can take the risk of ordering since the worse case is that I pay shipping to send it back. Is this a wrong way of thinking?
If most large SI1 stone's aren't eye clean, then obviously shipping costs and time could quickly add up. Should I stick
only to sites that offer pictures?
davidelevi, on 24 August 2011 - 11:51 PM, said:
"Tiffany knife edge 6 prong setting" ...diamond and the setting. Which I would suggest - if at all possible - you get from one place, avoiding unpleasant discussions if anything goes wrong.
Thanks for the tip! So I guess you're in general against buying a loose stone and getting it set by a local merchant.
davidelevi, on 24 August 2011 - 11:51 PM, said:
Take into account that not all settings are created equal; there are significant differences in quality and durability between a $3000 hand-fabricated setting in platinum and a $600 mass-produced cast setting in 14K white gold.
Thanks for the heads up. I guess I had assumed that if a reputable company offered a $800 ring it would be fine. James Allen offers a $1250 one. Problem is, I have no way of knowing if that one is better, or good enough, or whatever.
davidelevi, on 24 August 2011 - 11:51 PM, said:
You do well to demand that a diamond of the size and value as the one you are considering is graded by an independent lab, and that the lab is reputable - this means GIA, AGSL and at a pinch HRD.
So I know I definitely can't rely on EGL for a diamond of this size.
But are GIA and AGSL equivalent, or is one "stricter"? (from the point of view of having an SI1 be eye clean at 2.7 to 3 carats)
davidelevi, on 24 August 2011 - 11:51 PM, said:
Unfortunately, a laser inscription is easily erased, altered or duplicated, so it's not much of a guarantee anyway. A much safer means of identification is to use the diamond's characteristics (inclusions and surface blemishes)
I guess it's a good thing I'm going for SI1, since it will make my diamond easier to spot.

When you say "easily erased". are we talking any jeweler has the equipment in the back office, or does it take expensive equipment that only big labs have?
I thought laser engraving would be offered as a service but I haven't seen it listed on Blue Nile, Union Diamond or James Allen.
barry, on 25 August 2011 - 02:22 AM, said:
Larger size diamonds in the 2 carat+ in the I-J range tend to draw coloration and hue and can face up off-white. Would your gal be comfortable with that possibility?
All I can say is that we saw a 2.5 carat "I" in Tiffany's, and compared it side by side with an "F" I think. She saw the difference, she preferred the I. Thank God!

I'm just wondering if a J is that much different than an I.
barry, on 25 August 2011 - 02:22 AM, said:
Work with an Internet diamond vendor that actually sees, examines, and vets the diamond for you and will supply photos and reports.
Is there a list of reputable internet vendors that do this or offer photos?
barry, on 25 August 2011 - 02:22 AM, said:
Tiffany replica settings ...Bottom line is you get what you pay. You're spending a hefty amount of money on a diamond, don't short change yourself on the setting.
Thanks, I really hadn't considered it very much. I guess I just assumed that the setting would be a "simple" issue...
Thanks for all the help, it's much much appreciated!
Edited by Locke, 25 August 2011 - 08:58 AM.